Monday, February 24, 2014

I'm Stressed.

Today's Fun Fact:  I can speak German!

Is it just me, or do students just have way too much to worry about?  I mean, we have to keep track of classes and exams, volunteer hours, club participation, internships, friendships and social lives.  There's also the daunting thought of what will happen once we graduate.  The real world.  I'm totally not ready for that yet.  Once I leave college, I have to wear real pants.  No more sweats, seriously?  The struggle is real.  But honestly.  We go to class, work hard, and aim for our degrees, but we are still completely clueless as to what is in store for us in the future.  


And mostly, there's the daily stresses.  I feel as though I'm pretty organized and my planner is my lifeline, but it also gives me anxiety just looking at the color-coded activities and everything I have to do just this week.  


Monday- study session.  

Tuesday- quiz, club meeting, social activity.  
Wednesday- crucially important interview that my future depends on, club meeting.
Thursday- two quizzes, evening exam.  
Friday- two quizzes.

And classes on top of all of that.  I don't want to deal with it!  I want to become a blanket burrito and sleep the week away.  Yeah, sleep is probably my favorite stress reliever.  However, even though sleep is fabulous, it will not make all of my responsibilities go away.  I have to face them.


But I think I deserve some relaxation throughout the week.  Some things I plan on doing to get through this crazy week of interviews and exams are:

  • Having random dance parties in my dorm room
  • Writing my thoughts (blogging!)
  • Getting ice cream with my friends
  • Reading a lighthearted novel
  • Cleaning (I can't stand working in a messy space!)
  • Sleeping 
I believe that I can make it through the week.  And hopefully you'll use some of these to chill out as well!  

Life may seem crazy at times, but it's also wonderful.  Life is too short to be stressed all the time.  I'm a big believer in doing whatever you need to do in order to be happy.  If you are miserable at school or in your job, find something that brings joy to your day.  For instance, I couldn't make it through exams without midnight milkshakes with my BFF to look forward to.  Cramming late at night is actually fun if I study while head banging to Fall Out Boy.  Are you bored in your extracurricular?  Try something new, just to see if you like it! You never know.  


Aaaannnnd, that was a very rambling post.  But at least writing this helped me de-stress a little.  Hope your week is relaxing and enjoyable!  

Now, back to studying and interview prep…. or random dance parties.   

Till next time,
Shelly

Monday, February 3, 2014

Motivation

Today's fun fact:  I have an extremely wide taste in music, ranging from Panic! at the Disco to Nora Jones.  Country, dub step, classic rock, boy bands?  Love it all.  

Motivation: The drive to do something.  It's a funny thing.  I tend to think I lack motivation, but normally I get everything done that is required of me.  Schoolwork, various organization assignments, laundry?  I'm all over it.  Sadly, anything past that is really a challenge.  Instead of practicing violin or trudging onward in Anna Karenina, which I WANT to do, I end up sitting on Youtube or Facebook for hours on end.  I enjoy the mindless internet browsing while it's happening, but afterwords I'm just mad at myself for not being productive or interesting. 


Ironically enough, a Youtube video actually inspired this post.  I was watching "How to Get Out of Bed" (link below) by self-proclaimed lazy person Dan Howell, also known as Danisnotonfire.  This video, along with several other videos of his, really got me thinking about why I get up in the morning and what I plan to do with my day.  I mean, I go to class and eat and chat with my friends and such, but these things really aren't that interesting.  I want to continue to improve my musical abilities, and meet new people, and experience new things!  What do I get up in the morning for?  Class?  Sure.  But life is short, and each day matters.  There is more to life than going to class and studying (I sure hope).


Turns out I just need something to motivate me to start my day.  So, I've decided to make daily goals that make getting out of bed more worthwhile.  Nothing too big or crazy like skydiving or running a marathon (yet!).  More like:

  • Have a conversation with a new person.
  • Contact my German relatives.
  • Find a new piano piece to learn. 
  • Begin learning said piano piece.
  • Read The Fault in Our Stars.  (I'm so behind the times, I know.)
  • Try a new machine at the gym. (I love my stationary bike…)
  • Plan a weekend road trip.
These are small goals that will can make my day to day life more rewarding, and motivate me to seize the day when my alarm goes off.  It's a nice change from the daily grind of gym-class-meetings-study-internets.  

If you have any ideas for some motivational activities, leave me a comment!

And shout out to Dan Howell for being awesome.  Here is the video that inspired this post:

(These will open in a new window if you wanna continue reading!)

And here's a few other interesting videos from him that got me thinking about life.

(Warning: PG-13 for some language)

And with that, I'm gonna turn off my computer for a while and read a few pages of Anna Karenina.  

Hoping your days are filled with excitement,
Shelly