Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thoughts. Show all posts

Monday, March 24, 2014

Why Books Are Amazing

Today's Fun Fact:  I own lots of purple stuff.

I recently returned from my spring break.  It was pretty chill, not having to worry about exams or projects or anything.  That meant I had plenty of time for one of my favorite activities: binging on books!  I finally got through Anna Karenina, which I've been working on since November.  Then I read the amazing words of John Green in The Fault In Our Stars.  It was a fabulous way to spend spring break.

You see, I'm a person who can sit for hours on end reading a book.  I take a book or two along on every road trip.  If I can't find a new book to read, I’ll reread one of my favorites for the umpteenth time.  Most of my friends also enjoy reading, but I do have a few friends that don't understand my love for novels.  So, I have compiled a list of why I think books (specifically fiction novels) are amazing!


Books let you experience someone else's story.  I love escaping into the storybook world, immersing myself in the lives of the characters.  George R. R. Martin wrote in his book A Dance with Dragons, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies.  The man who never reads lives only one.”  I have fought for my survival on television, fallen hard for Mr. Darcy, helped an alien escape persecution, found a golden ring, destroyed a dark wizard, and lost a lover to cancer.  The list can go on forever.  

Books provide knowledge.  Yes, encyclopedias and history books are informative, but even pleasant 19th century British romance novels can teach you something.  I've learned quite a lot about past cultures and customs from all the classics I've been reading lately, like Emma by Jane Austen.  Character interactions with one another, their daily tasks, their figures of speech, all of these things were very ordinary when Austen wrote them.  But for me reading it 200 years later, I find it all very fascinating.  Reading a story is far more interesting than learning about the daily life of a 1800's middle class woman from a textbook.  

Books are inspirational.  One of my favorite authors from my teen years (and still!) is Ally Carter, author of the Gallagher Girls series.  In this series, the characters attend a boarding school that trains them for the CIA.  These books sparked my interest in the CIA and other intelligence agencies, and I briefly even looked into how one becomes a CIA agent.  I mean, I'm not pursuing a career in the CIA (and if I was... I would have to kill you), but it did make me think about my future and what I wanted to do with my life.  


Books beg for discussion.  When you're having a conversation, one person says something and others join the conversation by discussing what that one person brought up.  Well, when you read a novel, that's hundreds of pages of something said by someone!  That leaves so much to talk about!  This can be literary analysis, like the character development Victor Hugo's The Hunchback of Notre Dame, or social commentary in books like Divergent and The Hunger Games.  Realistic fiction like The Fault In Our Stars or The Perks of Being a Wallflower can open up discussions about your personal life experiences.  I love reading books, but I also love talking about the books I've read with others.


Books always have something to offer.  I firmly believe that I have gained something from every book I've read, whether or not I liked the book.  Take for instance J. R. R. Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings.  This trilogy is hugely popular and it's a magical fantasy adventure… but I didn't really enjoy it.  It's just not my kind of book.  However, I gained a huge appreciation for the author who came up with this whole world and history and language and everything.  That's just awesome.  Another book that I can't rave about is Anna Karenina.  It was just another book on my list of famous classic books to read, and I didn't love it.  But it was very thought-provoking.  There were many philosophical passages that made me think about things like faith and morality.  I definitely gained some insight to my own beliefs.  I finish every book that I start and I never regret reading a book, even if it wasn't my favorite.   


I can go on forever about why books are amazing and fantastic and wonderful, but for now I'll call it a day.  Do you agree with my list?  What's your favorite book?  Let me know, because I'm in need of something new to read!  

Happy reading,

Shelly

Monday, February 24, 2014

I'm Stressed.

Today's Fun Fact:  I can speak German!

Is it just me, or do students just have way too much to worry about?  I mean, we have to keep track of classes and exams, volunteer hours, club participation, internships, friendships and social lives.  There's also the daunting thought of what will happen once we graduate.  The real world.  I'm totally not ready for that yet.  Once I leave college, I have to wear real pants.  No more sweats, seriously?  The struggle is real.  But honestly.  We go to class, work hard, and aim for our degrees, but we are still completely clueless as to what is in store for us in the future.  


And mostly, there's the daily stresses.  I feel as though I'm pretty organized and my planner is my lifeline, but it also gives me anxiety just looking at the color-coded activities and everything I have to do just this week.  


Monday- study session.  

Tuesday- quiz, club meeting, social activity.  
Wednesday- crucially important interview that my future depends on, club meeting.
Thursday- two quizzes, evening exam.  
Friday- two quizzes.

And classes on top of all of that.  I don't want to deal with it!  I want to become a blanket burrito and sleep the week away.  Yeah, sleep is probably my favorite stress reliever.  However, even though sleep is fabulous, it will not make all of my responsibilities go away.  I have to face them.


But I think I deserve some relaxation throughout the week.  Some things I plan on doing to get through this crazy week of interviews and exams are:

  • Having random dance parties in my dorm room
  • Writing my thoughts (blogging!)
  • Getting ice cream with my friends
  • Reading a lighthearted novel
  • Cleaning (I can't stand working in a messy space!)
  • Sleeping 
I believe that I can make it through the week.  And hopefully you'll use some of these to chill out as well!  

Life may seem crazy at times, but it's also wonderful.  Life is too short to be stressed all the time.  I'm a big believer in doing whatever you need to do in order to be happy.  If you are miserable at school or in your job, find something that brings joy to your day.  For instance, I couldn't make it through exams without midnight milkshakes with my BFF to look forward to.  Cramming late at night is actually fun if I study while head banging to Fall Out Boy.  Are you bored in your extracurricular?  Try something new, just to see if you like it! You never know.  


Aaaannnnd, that was a very rambling post.  But at least writing this helped me de-stress a little.  Hope your week is relaxing and enjoyable!  

Now, back to studying and interview prep…. or random dance parties.   

Till next time,
Shelly

Monday, December 16, 2013

My First Post

Hey there!

So, this is my first ever blog post, and I'm kinda super excited to start blogging.  I've been meaning to do this for a while now, but I just went through the most grueling semester of my life and I had to make it through finals.  But finals are over, and I can finally breathe!


I started thinking about blogging after discovering the world of Youtube vloggers.  I found it interesting that these totally normal people were sharing their lives and their thoughts with thousands of complete strangers, I being one of those strangers.  Then I started thinking, "I could totally do that! I think I'm mildly entertaining..."  But I preferred being anonymous to putting my face on camera for the world to see.  Also, I keep a journal with my daily thoughts and insights so I'm already comfortable with writing about what I'm thinking.  I figured my feelings may very well be shared with some other people.  Why not share them with others and see if I can start some interesting conversations?  


Also, I'm at that point in life where I'm dealing with a lot of change and new experiences.  I find myself contemplating life and the future and relationships and careers and goals and all kinds of other topics.  It's a lot to deal with, and writing it out really helps me sort it out.  


And so here I am.  I'm wanting to use this blog almost like my personal journal to share my thoughts.  Thoughts that you may be dealing with, or thoughts that may be totally unique to my crazy brain.  


One last note: A journal of this type will obviously encompass some personal information, but I'm wanting to remain as anonymous, just for some mystery.  However, every time I post, I'll list a "Fun Fact" or something of the sort.  Maybe one day all the facts will come together and you'll discover that I'm actually your real life best friend!  But who knows.  


Have a fabulous day.


Shelly